Make a Couple of Small Changes

BismIllah wa as salaamu alaikum wa Rahmat Allah wa Barakatuh,

For all of the married sisters, especially those who are busy with house and children day in day out, make a little effort to look nice or special for your husband.

Some of you sisters might have bun-itis or ponytail-itis. It is when you want your hair out of the way while you're going about your day and so it always ends up in a bun or ponytail. However, one day when you hear the front door opening and your hubby coming home,  quickly undo the bun, run your fingers quickly through your hair so it is free flowing, and greet him with a smile. It's amazing how such a small thing can put a little gleam in a man's eye. Not necessarily make-up or perfume, but just some hair.

If you usually wear regular clothes in the house but you know if there are certain tops and dresses that your husband has commented on that he particularly likes, wear them. Little black dresses, fancy hairstyles, and make-up aren't always workable with children around. But loose hair, flattering clothes, and a nice smile work every time inshaa Allah.

Think about what works for you and your hubby and try to incorporate those little changes so you can be more pleasing to his eye...and never underestimate the power of a big smile! These are just the smallest little things that we can do that make a difference. After all, his pleasure in us is our Jennah.